Hi,
Just want to share with you all my own experience. My husband and me bought an apartment in Singapore ten years ago. When we moved in to stay in the new apartment for the first few months, we experienced a lot of bad luck things such as his business was affected badly, lost money in investment market etc.
At first, I thought it was just one of the \"up and down\" things in our life. So, I just ignore it but things getting worse then. One day, when I talked to one of my relatives about the new apartment, he suggested me to bring my apartment layout for his master to see. The master suggested a few things to change in my apartment such as dining table cannot put under the beam, the study table and bed must face certain directions according to my husband's ba qi. Actually, I don't really believe in \"feng shui\" but there is no harm to try. Guess what....things gradually change for better. To be honest, I have the same opinions as Roger and Lin \"you create your own destiny\" but there is no harm for trying if it can help us to have a smooth journey in life.
Ammie, I really wanted to help you but unfortunately this master has already passed away. You may try for Lilian Too's advise. I read about her books and her website but I am not sure how accurate will it be. Good luck!
Cheers;) Nichole